SEX. Sex is difficult. Sex for some of us is very hard to talk about. Sex holds a space of shame, judgment, pain and unfulfilled pleasure at moments. Sex doesn’t feel good in our bodies because of a lack of safety and past traumatic sexual experiences. Some of us have felt an overall sense of shut down and resentment. And… with all of that, we feel at times, still, engage in that sexual act hoping it will change and feel better, it will be great or sometimes it has been!