Meet Dragonfly

Dragonfly Love  Photo:  Chris Connelly Photography

Dragonfly Love

Photo: Chris Connelly Photography

Welcome, Love. I'm so very happy you found your way here with me.

I am here to infuse more pleasure into your sex life and whole being!

I’ve always been highly attuned to my own sexual energy. From a young age, I had a lot of curiosity surrounding sexually related things. I had experienced confusion, shame, judgment, wanted and unwanted sexual encounters. I have found on my path of discovery that it supports all of us if we are able to be a bit more vulnerable in this world. Which is sometimes very hard. Not until I was in my 30's did I discover the power I had inside myself, to step into my journey of self-actualization, sexually awakening that was suppressed and allow a transformation to happen. Ignoring trauma and suppressing my desires was not bringing me the pleasure I deserved.

Symbolizing to me that this is my true calling, leading the pathway to transformation and sexual enlightenment, for not only myself but for you as well.

Allowing the orgasmic energy of mother nature to pulse through me in Jamaica.  Photo: Pure Orgasmic Love

Allowing the orgasmic energy of mother nature to pulse through me in Jamaica.

Photo: Pure Orgasmic Love

I'm sometimes called the "Sensual Tsunami", or a "force of nature", yes that means all that I am in sensuality and sensation I allow to flow through me and out into the world. It can be like a huge wave of beautiful sensualness flowing. This wasn't always so easy for me to accept. It took some releasing of past traumas, shame and to actively make the choice of stepping into my pleasure, for me to truly embody this and to allow it to shine through.

I grew up in the midwest, St. Louis, Missouri. I followed my love to NY and we currently call Tampa Bay, Florida home. I love spending time in beautiful spaces all over the world and feeding my body with natures beauty. It is in these adventures that I allow my body to be caressed by the warm air, immersing myself into mother nature’s very own orgasmic energy. Part of my heritage, being of Indigenous "native" people, is where my name Dragonfly comes from. Meaning in almost every part of the world; transformation, adaptability, self-realization, free spirit, swiftness, activity, hope, love, and life's ever constant process of change. Amazing, my granny really knew her stuff and who I was when she lovingly graced me with this name.

A powerful moment I was experiencing in Lake Atitlan, Guatemala  Photo:  Jongunnar Photography

A powerful moment I was experiencing in Lake Atitlan, Guatemala

Photo: Jongunnar Photography

I have always been willing to be vulnerable, share and help others. I really can't remember a time where I wasn't comfortable talking about sexual topics, which hasn't always been celebrated, being told I can not talk about that stuff or use those words. Moving forward in time, I was seeing that our world was still in a HUGE need of sexual discovery and guidance with real sexual wellness and enhancing education. Naturalizing the gift of sexuality, empowering it to help us in every part of our lives, enhancing and helping it permeate through every cell of our bodies. To truly allow ourselves to discover, feel and to experience the power we innately possess.

I'm a woman on a mission. I want you to feel all the pleasure your body deserves and more! Following my true calling, Sexology.

My education and coaching is a collaboration of many modalities. I attended The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality becoming a Somatic Sexologist, along with becoming a CSB- Certified Sexological Bodyworker and attending the Somatica® Institute. I have a decade of trauma-informed bodywork, with a mix of somatic experiencing, Tantra, Taoism, psychology, sociology, philosophy and a plethora of growth-accelerating practices I use to propel student-clients into higher stratospheres of love, connection, intimacy, and pleasure. Working with amazing companies and events like Caliente Resort, Naughty In N'awlins, Temptation Cruise, Hedonism. Being featured on XRU-Extreme Restraints University, and in NUSA Sun Magazine.

And...tingling with excitement and pleasure as I now offer my very own Gateway Weekends and Retreats for women and partnerships! Also hosting a podcast, presenting my PleasurePlayshops™ and creating videos to enhance your overall sexual pleasure and wellness.

Feeling some special feels in this moment at the geysers. What an amazing place, I can’t wait to hold my very own retreat here someday.  Special Event - Iceland  Photo:  Jongunnar Photography

Feeling some special feels in this moment at the geysers. What an amazing place, I can’t wait to hold my very own retreat here someday.

Special Event - Iceland

Photo: Jongunnar Photography

Currently… I’m am enjoying being a mother of 2 beautiful adult children, being a fur momma and fur g-ma. Traveling the world with my very supportive, loving and sexy husband E, continuing to expand and discover our very own sexual pleasure. Guiding and educating people just like you to discover a deeper connection and fill their own body with magnificent orgasmic energy that flows into every part of life.

The choices you make and the programming you follow, relationships you engage in, the sex you feel are yours, which ones are you choosing?

I truly look forward to connecting and enhancing your erotic pleasure!

In erotic breath, love & hugs from my heart to your heart,

💜Dragonfly 💜


Looking to expand yourself? Have questions? Want to share your story? Contact ME! I would love to hear from you love.